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The
decision to enroll in agricultural education was a life-changing choice for
Melissa Schulz Gaither, and one she’d make again.
Her decision
came when Kent Boggs, now Oklahoma FFA’s executive secretary, was a new
agricultural education teacher at Elgin High School. He visited the Schulz
family to recruit the eighth-grader to join FFA.
“I can still
picture it,” Boggs said. “They were surprised a teacher would come visit. We
talked about what a good place they had for a Supervised Agricultural
Experience project, and I left there pretty confident she would enroll.”
Although her
mother wanted her to enroll in home economics, Gaither chose to don a blue
corduroy jacket and recruited her friends to join, too.
“FFA taught
me to learn from others’ strengths,” said the former Elgin FFA chapter
officer and 1984-85 Oklahoma FFA Secretary. “The
friendly competitive nature of FFA activities has proven to be a strength in
business.”
FFA allowed
Gaither to develop friendships with peers across Oklahoma. Now, developing
business relationships is one of Gaither’s major responsibilities as an
employee of Darling International Inc. in Dallas, where she has worked since
graduating with an agricultural economics degree from Oklahoma State
University.
Gaither
started in Darling’s marketing department in 1989, working on a domestic
product account and expanding her responsibilities to international
commodity marketing. Now, as director of corporate purchasing, she manages
her firm’s largest expenditure — the purchase of natural gas — and other
critical supply areas.
Gaither’s job
has kept her connected to agriculture, as Darling provides food industry
rendering, recycling and recovery solutions through 44 U.S. facilities,
converting animal and food waste to commercial goods such as protein meals,
tallow and yellow grease. Her position allows her to incorporate skills she
learned through agricultural education and FFA.
“My public
speaking training really allowed me to enhance my people skills, which was a
big plus for sales and marketing-type careers,” she said.
However, public
speaking was not an area Gaither originally planned to pursue.
“Mr. Boggs was the
one who always pushed us to do more than we thought we could achieve,” she
said. “He basically made me learn the FFA Creed and give it in front of the
class. I thought I was going to die … then I had to represent Elgin FFA in
the FFA Creed Speaking contest. I was the shyest one in the whole Greenhand
class that year and was competing in public speaking!”
Gaither’s other
FFA activities included competing on the chapter’s parliamentary procedure
team, selling sausage, building “the famous haunted house at the school
Halloween carnival,” and, of course, showing sheep.
“My favorite
memory is of washing sheep with my dad in the middle of January to get ready
for a livestock show,” she said. “Everyone was freezing, especially the
sheep, and not thinking anything about it, like ‘this is what everyone does
in the middle of January.’”
Boggs
said Gaither was one the rare students who could balance everything with a
smile on her face.
“Melissa was
always on fire and succeeded at whatever she did,” he said. “She was very
positive, and she never complained about being busy.”
In addition
to her FFA activities, Gaither also played basketball, ran track, served on
the Elgin Student Council, and was president of her senior class. But her
FFA public speaking skills were a key to her career success.
“From the very
beginning, public speaking gave me the confidence for interviewing that is
so critical to getting the job,” she said. “And now, after 18 years with
Darling International Inc., my greatest strength is my ability to build
strong business relationships. FFA definitely taught me the importance of
working with and competing against all kinds of people.”
Gaither’s life
includes more than her work. She married Alan Wayne Gaither in 1996, and the
couple has two boys: Cameron Jackson Gaither, 8, and Logan Pierce Gaither,
4. An Oklahoma FFA Champion in all aspects, this mother and career woman
has advice for today’s FFA members:
“Try every
activity FFA has to offer. The challenge of something new is the greatest
confidence builder. You will be so surprised of your capabilities, and you
never know what might ‘stick.’” |